Here is the specific situation:
There’s this woman, let us call her Jane, that i have recognized for somewhat over per year. We came across pretty arbitrarily once we had been both shopping for a dance partner for ballroom dance, together with past 12 months we basically only met at lessons and activities linked to the classes. Through the year that is previous had a relationship.
Nonetheless in the beginning of the present year her boyfriend separated with her, and also at that time we realised that i love Jane, and would not mind seeing whenever we could date.
Ever since then we come across one another somewhat more regularly, if i would like to try out for the exercise that she does, and I ended up enjoying it (although whether that is purely because I enjoy the activity, or because she is also there, I am not sure of) as she asked me.
Whether or perhaps not you can find any signals that she actually is enthusiastic about me personally, i’d maybe not feel confident saying. There has been several things which make me get “Hmmmmmm”, but i actually do n’t have a track that is good at reading signs, and understand of myself that we tend to interpret things more favourably such circumstances
The issue, and concern, we come across is:
What’s a simple method that I’m able to approach asking her if she really wants to date, without rendering it extremely awkward?
The things I actually want to avoid is rendering it with me, or that’s she feels awkward about me asking her out that she no longer feels comfortable going to dance lessons. Also i actually do not need to offer the impression that I happened to be waiting on her behalf to break up together with her boyfriend, to make certain that i possibly could ask her down.
Another point occurs when it could be time that is good approach this topic along with her. Continue reading